Prarod is a 12 yr old boy whose nickname is Tank.  He is described as a survivor.  He is always active and loves to go to school.  He will be attending the 3^rd grade next semester. 

Prakit is a 9yr old boy who was abandoned as a baby.  He is described as a happy and chatty child.  He will be attending 2^nd grade next semester. 

Surasit is a 9yr old boy who is smiley and energetic.  He was abandoned by his father and his mother is an imprisoned addict.  He will be attending 2^nd grade next semester.

Saran is a 10yr old boy whose nickname is Ice.  He is cheerful and gets along well with others.  He will be attending 3^rd grade next semester. 

We are proud to partner with the Mercy Centre and to sponsor these four children.  We wish the boys all the best in their schooling and thank the Mercy Centre for their ongoing mission.

Kevin

This year, Project Left Behind’s board of directors made a decision to directly support orphanages only.  As you may recall in prior years, we also supported other non-profit organizations that were directly assisting orphans.  We’ve chosen instead to directly support three orphanages this year: Casa Guatemala orphanage in Guatemala, Aishworya orphanage in Nepal, and House of Hope orphanage in Thailand. 

Project Left Behind is providing 500 meals for the orphans at Casa Guatemala.  Although we have some grandiose ideas to assist the orphanage, often simply providing basic necessities such as food, toothpaste and clothing is the most pressing need. 

At the Aishworya orphanage in Nepal, we are providing school shoes for 35 children, as well as purchasing rice and beans for the entire orphanage. 

At the House of Hope orphanage in Thailand, Project Left Behind is sponsoring four children to go to school for a year. 

Danielle has visited each of these orphanages and I went with her to Casa Guatemala.  These children deserve an  opportunity to learn and to thrive.  We’re simply trying to do our part to help them.

 I would like to thank all of you who have donated to Project Left Behind.  As you’ll recall, every penny of donated funds goes directly to purchasing goods for the children.  All overhead costs are provided by Danielle and me.

-Kevin

I am very fortunate.  I come from a wonderful family.  My parents had 8 children.  This year they celebrated their 50^th wedding anniversary.  As far back as I can remember, I always wanted a big family too.  So, I was taken by surprise when I was not able to get pregnant.  My husband and I tried and tried to no avail.  And now, I thank God every day that He did not answer that prayer, because if He did, we would never have our precious son, Jackson.  We adopted our son in March 2010 and it was the most wonderful, life-changing event for both my husband and me.  Adoption opened our eyes to a new, wonderful world we were not aware of and for that, we are forever grateful. 

There are millions of children who are waiting to become part of a loving family.  It’s a sad reality that most of these children will grow up living in an orphanage until they turn 16 and then will be “sent out” onto the streets.  I can’t even imagine what that would be like.  It’s so easy to take our lives for granted.  It breaks my heart when I take the time to sit and think about these poor children.  And that’s why I am so grateful to be on the Board of Project Left Behind (PLB).  I know we’re small, but it is so wonderful to know that we are working to help these young kids. To know that PLB was able to put shoes and stockings on thirty-nine children’s feet who live in an orphanage in Nepal and that PLB provided twelve months of school fees, uniforms, basic health care and food for six orphaned children living at the House of Hope in Molo, Africa, makes me so proud.  And knowing that my sister-in-law and brother visit an orphanage every year and put smiles on these kids’ faces, laughter in the air, and food on the table, warms my heart.  As Mother Teresa puts it in one of my favorite quotes, “It’s not how much you give, but how much love you put into giving.”  I know that all of us who either volunteer, donate, pray or do whatever we’re able to, put love into this non-profit.  And to be a part of a group that gives with love for no other reason than because they want to help make a difference in an orphaned child’s life…well, it’s something I cherish and hope that I can keep contributing to. 

Teresa Poulos

Kevin

The timing for our trip was right before Christmas, which in so many ways is a perfect end to the year while simultaneously tying in the “new” year with new goals and vigor for PLB. I know working with orphanages around the world is my true calling, and like starting my own business, I’ve found the daunting part to be honing in on how to provide the most impact. These trips are a true oxymoron of exhilarating and depressing. The raw realization that there are 10 million more children like the ones in front of me can leave me sleepless, while the prospect of actually changing the destiny of the “innocent” is invigorating.

The children were so charming and warm at Casa Guatemala. There were ample volunteers from all over the world at this orphanage. The stark reality of what these innocent souls have to endure and overcome in the world is surreal. Our world becomes nothing more than a fairytale for them. Homes with refrigerators stocked with a week’s worth of groceries; closets full of fun, colorful, clean clothes; carpeted floors; doors and windows; toys; soap, toothpaste and a toothbrush; running water; clean drinking water from the facets; a hot shower; a soft mattress; and even a piece of bubble gum to chew are more than likely just a dream for these children. The reality is they’re trying to endure their adverse circumstances of life.

A flash of clarity came to us on this trip that two things are critical (if the basics of food, clothing, and shelter are being satisfactorily met) for a feasible chance at life: love and education. It seems apparent how to provide those things, but when you’re staring into this black hole it’s very unclear.

LOVE. New research shows the devastating affects to children who are in environments for long periods of time where they’re not adequately cared for in a nurturing, “loving” way. A severe lack of caregiver responsiveness to the child’s early communication efforts between birth and the age of three manifests into a child who can’t have social relationships that are crucial for a fulfilled life. Orphanages that encourage volunteers to stay and care for the children actually are alleviating some potential critical development issue.

EDUCATION. Learning is the only stepping stone from the brutal grip of destiny into the unknown realm of optimistic possibilities for these children, most of whom will only receive a sub-par 6th grade education. Schooling beyond 6th grade will cost $2,000 for education plus room and board for one year…which might as well be $2 million for these children. Every child should have the opportunity to change his fate.

Tonight, give thanks that you were lucky enough to be born into the world of possibilities, for so many were not.

Please enjoy the video of our trip .

Danielle

We recently held our Q4 board meeting for Project Left Behind. I’m actually very excited about our future and our ability to make a difference for some orphans in the world. We recently decided to fund a project for “House of Hope” that will furnish an entire house in Kenya for 16 children 12 years and under. We’re working with a contact that is ‘in country’ and is attempting to get these children off the street. Project Left Behind will be funding beds, chairs and other essentials in an attempt to make a difference in their lives by providing some semblance of safety and comfort. Imagine living on the streets as an 8 year old child! In addition, we’re only approximately $800 shy of funding education, food, and nutrition for an entire month at a separate orphanage in Molo for 77 children. If you’re able to help, please consider a tax deductible donation to Project Left Behind this year. Checks can be mailed to:

Project Left Behind

4875 Caminito Exquisito

San Diego, CA 92130

As we did last year, Project Left Behind is funding school shoes for the Aishworya orphans in Nepal sponsored by Anytime Sitter of San Diego, CA. Our projects page will be updated as we receive photos.

We’re excited and blessed to be able to make a small imprint on someone’s life. I fully realize that in the grand scheme of things, it’s not that much. However, that doesn’t diminish the importance of the project or of our mission. Our plans will continue to evolve and become more impactful. We doubled our donations in 2010 from 2009. I expect that trend to continue. As a reminder, any and all donations go directly to support the orphans. There is no overhead cost. In fact, the annual human touch trip is completely funded by Danielle and I.

Especially during this time of year, please keep all orphans in your prayers. Life is hard for all of us at times, but it’s harder for them. Imagine trying to deal with their reality as a child. I hope you have a blessed holiday season with family and friends. May an angel’s wing touch every orphaned child.

Kevin

UNICEF is the United Nations Children’s Fund.  It is an agency of the United Nations responsible for programs to aid education and the health of children and mothers in developing countries.  As such, it tracks and records statistics about a multitude of issues, including orphans throughout the world.  Although I’m not the biggest fan of the U.N., any agency that assists orphans is worthwhile in my book.  Annotated below is a list of sobering statistics produced by UNICEF regarding how the HIV/AIDS epidemic is devastating orphans across the world. 

UNICEF produced a report titled Children on the Brink in 2002.  It found that more than 13.4 million children had lost one or both parents to the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the three regions studied (Sub-Saharan Africa, Asia, Latin America and the Caribbean), a number that was estimated to increase to 25 million by 2010. In addition to the millions of children orphaned by AIDS, millions more are being adversely affected by the disease.  In addition to providing statistics on orphans from 88 countries in 2002, UNICEF identified several troubling trends:

1.  Africa has the greatest proportion of children who are orphans. In 2001, 34 million children in sub-Saharan Africa were orphans, one-third of them due to AIDS. Because of AIDS, the number of orphans continues to increase dramatically. By 2010, the number of orphans was estimated to reach 42 million. Twenty million of these children – or almost 6 percent of all children in Africa -will be orphaned due to AIDS.

2.  Asia has the largest number of orphans. Due to Asia’s large population, the number of orphans in Asia is much larger than in Africa. In 2001, there were 65 million orphans, with approximately 2 million of them orphaned due to AIDS.

3.  Orphan populations are concentrated, reflecting broader trends in HIV prevalence and population. In 2001, 12 countries in sub-Saharan Africa accounted for 70 percent of the orphans. The three countries with the largest populations also had the most orphans – Nigeria, Ethiopia and the Democratic Republic of Congo. However, the impact of AIDS will be felt even more acutely in countries with smaller populations, but higher HIV prevalence rates.

4.  The number of orphans throughout the world will continue to rise. Today’s prevalence rates will largely determine the pattern of orphaning for the next decade. In countries where HIV/AIDS prevalence has recently escalated, the full impact on the estimated number of orphans has yet to emerge.

The difficulties of life as an orphan are brutal.  UNICEF highlights just some of the all too common problems these children face.  Children without the guidance and protection of their primary caregivers are often more vulnerable and at risk of becoming victims of violence, exploitation, trafficking, discrimination or other abuses.  In conflict situations, involuntary separation from both family and community protection, sometimes across national borders, greatly increases the child’s risk of exposure to violence, physical abuse, exploitation and even death. Surviving children face malnutrition, illness, physical and psychosocial trauma, and impaired cognitive and emotional development. Unaccompanied girls are at especially high risk of sexual abuse.  Meanwhile, unaccompanied boys are at high risk of forced or ‘voluntary’ participation in violence and armed conflict.

The following statistics were compiled as of 2002:

1. In Central and Eastern Europe alone, almost 1.5 million children live in public care.
2. In Russia, the annual number of ‘children left without parental care’ has more than doubled over the last 10 years, despite falling birth rates.
3. Conflict has orphaned or separated 1 million children from their families in the 1990s.
4. An estimated two to five per cent of the refugee population are unaccompanied children.

Sleep tight.  May an angel’s wing touch every orphaned child.

Kevin

MAY 2010:

It’s been awhile since my last blog at Project Left Behind.  However, we’ve been keeping very busy.  The most important accomplishment over the past few months is our attainment of 501C3 status.  It’s official-Project Left Behind is now a tax exempt charity per the IRS.  Donations to Project Left Behind are now eligible for tax exempt status.  As a reminder, according to our bylaws, your donations are prohibited from being used for any overhead.  100% of all donations will be used to support our ongoing projects for orphans around the world.  For an updated status on current projects, please visit our ‘projects’ page on the website, www.projectleftbehind.org.

You’ll also be seeing my blogs a little more frequently.  After much thought, I’ve decided to write about different countries, orphanages and plights of orphans around the world.  It’s my intention to make my blogs informational while focusing on different countries around the globe.  It’s easy to get wrapped up in our day to day lives and to forget about them.  For me, nighttime is when I sit back and contemplate the daily hardships many of these children have to overcome.  I know far too many went to bed tonight hungry, lonely, sick and unloved.  It’s so tragic that it’s hard to really focus on their pain for too long.  I get so impatient wanting to help them that I usually just end up frustrated trying to think of some grand plan to fix all of their problems.

I appreciate you being part of my journey and thank you in advance for your support.  Please keep all orphans around the world in your thoughts and prayers.  Thank you.

Nine years ago my wife and I were in a small farming village in the Ukraine called Mykolaiv , adopting our son Gregory.  As part of the process, we visited the orphanage daily to spend time with him and to visit all the kids.  It was definitely a unique experience that forever changed our lives.  We would walk with Gregory around the perimeter of the building just getting to know each other and enjoying the fresh air.  Gregory was 3 ½ years old, very intelligent, and eager to see everything around us.  Every time we showed up to take Gregory outside for a walk, a little boy named Sasha would latch on to my wife Danielle.  He would wrap his little arms around Danielle’s neck and hold on for dear life, never wanting to let go.  He simply wanted to be loved.  Of course we had to take him with us on our walks with Gregory.  We didn’t speak the same language, had never met each other before, and had no real way to communicate.  However, we communicated through love.  He was an adorable child and we grew very attached to both he and Gregory.

Knowing our time to depart was fast approaching, we inquired into whether we might adopt both Gregory and Sasha together.  For a myriad of reasons, mostly political, we were told that was not an option.  When our day of departure finally came, it was one of very mixed emotions.  Of course we were thrilled to be leaving with our new son Gregory.  However, we were distraught at the thought of leaving little Sasha in the orphanage.  Many tears were shed that day.  Although he couldn’t possibly understand, we vowed to come back for him.

As life happens, we eventually flew home and welcomed Gregory into our family.  It has been an incredible journey from the very first day.  Approximately six months after we returned home, we inquired into the process of going back to Mykolaiv to adopt Sasha, as promised.  At that time we were told it was again not an option.  However, this time, the reason was because a family had decided to adopt him.  Although we were happy that he would be leaving the orphanage, we were definitely upset over the fact that he would not be a part of our family.

As I fast forward back to tonight, I am of the opinion that this is all God’s plan.  I am blessed to be a father and a husband.  I am both proud and humbled by my children.  My wife is the only person in my life that I could possibly imagine going through this journey with.  I hope and pray that Sasha is growing up and thriving somewhere in the world with a family that loves him more than life itself.  I think about how he must have felt when we left and Danielle didn’t show up the next day to take him on a walk.  I wonder what he looks like and what his life must be like today.  I think maybe we were just supposed to be there at that time in his life.  He was just one of many children in the orphanage.  He simply needed a little more love at the time.  I know unequivocally, for a very brief time in his life in a very small town in the Ukraine, Sasha was loved.  I pray that you are happy, healthy, and loved.

-Kevin